See yourself as the next Christian Grey, or maybe you want to get bound, gagged and fucked yourself? Bondage toys can be awesome fun but you have to make sure you’re looking after yourself and your partner. Toys to change things up (or something else) Want to try some BDSM? Good toys should come with a dedicated storage pouch or packaging that can be kept to store them in. Over long periods of time the plastics of different toys can degrade one another. Store toys so they aren’t touching one another. If anyone is getting bound, blindfolded or gagged, make sure you don’t restrict blood flow, always keep some safety scissors on hand, and if they can’t talk to tell you to stop or use a safe-word then give them something like a large set of keys that they can drop to let you know if things are going too far and they need a break. Take care with any sex toys, like bondage toys, that restrict your movement or ability to communicate. Soaps react badly with the lining of your butt so be extra careful to rinse them off thoroughly.
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How to clean your sex toysĬlean your toys using soap and hot water, and make sure there is no soap left on the toy once you’re done cleaning. If you need some condoms, click here to get some for free. The easiest way to ensure hygiene is to use a condom on the toy and change the condom each time the toy changes hands (or holes). If you’re using a toy with someone else it’s important to make sure the toys are properly cleaned before they go from one partner to another. It also won’t wash out of your sheets like water-based lube will. Silicone-based lube is best avoided because it will melt any silicone sex toys it comes in contact with.
Lube up!Īlways use lots of water-based lube. Your butt doesn’t have these muscles and any toy completely inserted can very easily be retracted deep inside and will require an awkward trip to the emergency room to remove. Toys without bases are designed for vaginas, which have muscles to push toys back out. Sex Toys 101 Anal toysĪny toys that go in your butt need to have a base to stop them going completely inside. Using toys is a great way to train your body for sex, and using them with a partner can make sex pretty damn amazing, but before you get into all that there are a few things you’ll need to know.
When it comes to using sex toys, it can be tricky to work out where to start. This article was originally featured on the Ending HIV New Zealand website (Kia Ora to our Kiwi mates!)